Life indeed unfair

Reading through some of the blogs, I see many different version of failed attempt to get the girl you like. With my very own experience, I analyze it this way.
In life, nothing is fair. Everyone is born with different look. You might be handsome, ugly, moderate or pretty. Again, everyone is born with different degree of intellectual ability. These two factors are applicable to two kind of relationship. Obviously, first one that could come to your mind would be working relation and the other one would be the word attractiveness. You can be attractive in look (handsome, cool, etc) or words (know how to "sian" girls with nice words) or intellectual. (Power of speech)
LOL As for me it is too hard to find one that you like and she also like you. I think I don’t have the look as well as the mouth that know how to make girl happy. So, what I can do is to work on another path.
I understand that I am living in the world that “runs” after the word fact. It is the fact that you don’t have the charm, the fact that you are not as “talkative”, and the fact that you don’t have the strong financial support, the fact that you don’t have the knowledge and etc… thus, why should I choose you as my life partner when I find you not having one of the strong points stated above.
Once a girl confidently told me that I am not the one whom she thinks can give security and warmth. This painful remark gave me a fantastic shock. I have done so many things and what I earned is this remark. The other guy attracts her like reading ABC. Is there something that is missing in me or did I misunderstand the word sincerity? Often I ask myself why she said that. On what basis did she say that or did that? Often, I also ask myself how good is she when you are the one who is being selected. What actually drives two people into a relation? Likely, charm the primary factor and sincerity the secondary. No point doing anything when the girl do not like you as it waste your time and effort. You might learn an expensive lesson if you try to attempt it. Chances are slim. Well, the theory goes again, if it’s yours, it yours, else she will never be by your side.
Two years of National service, once awhile in my duty area, with my cute doggie, thinking of all those troubling issues (many other than BGR). I feel that you must be happy of what you have now and be glad that you still have your love ones. Just like everyday, my dog waiting patiently for me to arrive in camp to take him for a walk. Although, not allowed, because of love, I always bring nice dog food for him. My dog has a room and my heart as well as I having a room in it’s’ heart. Simple love makes so much different in life.
Having one case, I would like to share, I met a pretty girl (attached) who is very nice to me and make me live in the way you never have been before. This is a very good bonus and I don’t expect too much. I believe that this is just another experience give by god to beautify my life. Sometime it is really very good to have such a good female friend. True enough, this case will make your mind wonder but know yourself and know her, thus not killing this friendship. (I screw up once. Once bitten twice shy.)
Well, if you don’t have the ‘fixed assets’ such as charm or the ability to talk and attract girls, you can try to improve on the variable aspect. Intellectuality or attempt a make over could be some ways.
Work hard and study hard. Make sure one day if people ask you what have you achieve in life, there is a very good answer. Along the way, you can keep on looking for the right one. Even if the one never come by, at least you have achieved something in life.
A simple guy leading a simple life.
Good luck my friends…
Ting Siong